We’ve all done it, embarrassed ourselves by hitting on a girl we have no chance with. To be able to tell if she is attracted you read this simple guide – don’t be a fool!
A vital sign, as to whether she finds you attractive or not, is when you first catch each other’s gaze from across the room. If she likes you, she’ll hold the eye contact for a little longer than normal, maybe a second or two. Then, she’ll look away. The telling sign, if she’s really interested, is if she looks back at you smiling.
Mirroring is when we slightly copy each other’s movements and body language. So, she goes for her glass and drinks the same time as you do, or maybe she’ll touch her face the same time as you, that’s a good indicator that she finds you attractive. This goes for both men and women and usually occurs when we want to get someone to like us.
Change in posture
If women see someone they find attractive looking at them they will change their posture, arching their back to appear more curvy and attractive to men. If you catch a girl who you are looking at or talking to do this, then she probably likes you.
She’ll play with her hair
Yes, it is true! When a women sees someone they are attracted to they will go through a series of self checks to ensure their hair, or her make-up, is ok. These checks will generally be pretty subtle so she may not, as the myth goes, actually play with her hair.
She’ll soften her features
Usually, when people do not know that they are being watched they will have quite hardened features. But if a woman finds you attractive, she will do her best to soften her features and become more smiley so that you will find her prettier.
If she likes you, she’ll make a signal to the other women to tell them to back off, ‘he’s mine!’She’ll do this by subtlety touching you whilst you are speaking – usual places are the arms or the shoulders. So if this happens, and it’s not an accident or to push you away, then it would be fair to assume she likes you. Another way to find out if she finds you attractive, is if she leans into your personal space.
A more proactive way to work out whether she is attracted to you is by touching her or moving into her personal space – if she is comfortable with you, and possibly attracted to you, she will not mind.If she pushes you away or appears uncomforable, back off!
And if she’s not attracted to you…
On that note, yeah, it’s a sad fact that not every woman will find you attractive. Here’s how to tell if she’s not attracted to you.
She won’t laugh at your jokes
Laughter is a form of flirting – if she’s not laughing when you crack jokes, regardless of how great or lame they are, she’s not interested.
If she stays about a foot away from you while you speak you have no chance – same goes if you move into her space and she looks uncomfortable. Also, If she won’t hold eye contact for more than a second then it is safe to assume that she does not find you attractive