We can define popularity as being generally like or admired. But do beautiful people naturally attract new friends in London easier? – and become more popular as a result?
You often hear the phrase – oh looks dont affect your attractiveness. Although it is true that looks are only one component of your overall appeal. Studies have consistently shown there is a link between attractiveness and popularity. Therefore it is true if you are good looking you should have no problem meeting new friends in London
What is the definition of attractive?
Men and women consistently agree on the definition of attractiveness. Over 90% of participants in a worldwide study agree on facial attractiveness based on facial symmetry of Asian, Hispanic, Black and White men and women. Both genders agree that attractive individuals typically have large eyes and lips and small noses and chins. Crazily superficial we know!
Extensive research has shown that in social situations such as bars we can observe patterns based on the looks of the people in the bar…
Who gets approached by new friends?
Women of high attractiveness will be approached by both male and female friends more frequently than will women of lower attractiveness.
Who approaches new friends?
Women of high attractiveness will approach both male and female friends more frequently than will women of lower attractiveness.
High attractiveness women vs low attractiveness women
Attractive women are more popular overall than are women of lower attractiveness. Women of high attractiveness are approached more, and are approaching significantly more members of both sexes- reflecting greater popularity.
More of social like behaviour suggests that attractive women have better social skill and are, capable of initiating more interactions.
Beautiful is good
What the research shows is just how significant the positive traits associated with attractive people are. Good looking people are perceived by others to be more confident, intelligent, successful, assertive and happy.
Is attractiveness more than just looks?
Studies also show a connection between physical attraction and social skills, revealing that attractive people will be treated with greater social grace and acceptance. The result of which will mean the attractive person will have higher self-esteem, self-concept and emotional stability. Women do not place the same importance on as men but they are attracted to healthy men who are well built. Fortunately any man can work on their physique by visiting the gym regularly.
Women are attracted to strong, influential and charismatic men. Women need protection; survival and replication are the deep routed psychological traits women are looking to fulfil when looking for in a man. The fantasy man and the reality man are usually two very different people for women. When women think logically about attraction they use different parameters for selection than what takes over in the heat of the moment. Self confidence is the only personality trait that appeals to universally to women. If you want to attract women then build self confidence. Women need to feel secure by being close to a dominant man. Someone who takes the lead instead of a back seat. Thats why nice guys finish last.