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Can’t get a date in London to save your life?

Dating should be easier than ever. But unless you have the right strategy dating in 2021 is HARD!

Why online dating does not work

Lets face it online dating is TRASH. You’ve probably noticed that you can only match with women that are at least FOUR rungs LOWER than you?

You’re a 7/10 and all you match with is a 3/10

The BEST you can do online!

Its not impossible to meet a very attractive woman online. But for the average guy or even above average guy the chances are slim – very, very slim

What Tinder dont want you to know is… ‘the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men’

So unless your’e in the top 20% of guys you are effectively INVISIBLE to the majority of women on the app. This also explains why your’e matching with only the mingers!

Could you fluke a match with one or two solid girls? Sure. With months of trying. Then you have another big problem – she’s getting 69 messages a minute – good luck standing out. If you are looking for a hot, cool, professional, mentally healthy woman, you are not going to find that from a dating app

Clubs and bars are bad for meeting women

Nightclub and bar attendance has been on a steady decline for the past several years and counting. Nightclubs are going out of business left and right with more being threatened to close their doors each and every day

Millennials who were not regular nightclub attenders were asked for their reasons for not attending…

  • Expensive cover charges
  • High-priced drinks
  • Long waits
  • Slow bar service
  • Rude staff
  • Being pushed around in a crowded atmosphere
  • Poor male-to-female ratio
  • Better ways to discover new music
  • Inability to have a conversation

In my experience of 15+ years of London night life I agree with results

  • The male to female ratio in many venues is horrific – 70%+ males is common
  • Personally I don’t drink alcohol and dislike interacting with drunks
  • Trying to start conversations with loud music playing is a nightmare
  • You get shallower women at night-time venues and numbers usually flake
  • You’re often opening groups which hinders 1 on 1 interactions

Why day game is best

Millennials are noted for picking authentic experiences over wasteful spending, so why aren’t they out partying? Isn’t partying an experience?

The same survey asked what they enjoy doing in their free time. The results…

  • Drinking wine
  • Frequenting rooftop bars
  • Movies
  • Concerts
  • Walking around the city
  • Discovering new restaurants/foods
  • Hanging with friends
  • Happy hours
  • Festivals

Nightclubs? NOPE!

So if you are out during the day. Guess what – your’e going to be meeting those quality girls who aren’t out at night!

Day game male to female ratios are irrelevant. You have NO competition. Its a 1:1 ratio! You wont find that ratio anywhere in night game

You are sober – she is sober. No more hunting around the venue to find a woman who hasn’t been drinking for 5 hours straight!

You don’t have to compete with loud music to communicate

No more annoying friends trying to pull her away from you

If things go well you can go on an Insta-date – you are much more likely to build a solid connection than a dodgy mobile number from a chick who wont remember you the next morning!

If you are serious about sky rocketing your dating success get in touch now!

Lets make this year your most successful ever with women…

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